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Managing Challenging Behaviors: A Family Approach

Evidence-based strategies for understanding and addressing challenging behaviors while maintaining a positive family environment.

Understanding the Function of Behavior

All behavior serves a purpose. Challenging behaviors often occur when children lack more appropriate ways to meet their needs. Understanding why a behavior occurs is the first step in addressing it effectively.

Common Functions of Behavior

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Attention

Seeking interaction with others

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Escape

Avoiding non-preferred activities or situations

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Access

Obtaining preferred items or activities

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Sensory

Seeking or avoiding sensory input

Prevention Strategies

The best behavior intervention is often prevention. Consider these proactive approaches:

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Predictable Routines

Establish clear expectations and consistent daily schedules

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Provide Choices

Give children control and decision-making opportunities

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Communication Skills

Teach and practice appropriate ways to express needs

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Environmental Supports

Modify surroundings to reduce triggers and meet basic needs

Teaching Replacement Behaviors

Instead of just stopping challenging behaviors, teach appropriate alternatives:

Communication Alternatives

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Teach functional communication to replace behavior

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Practice appropriate ways to ask for help or breaks

Positive Reinforcement

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Develop coping strategies for difficult situations

Reinforce positive behaviors consistently

Staying Calm During Difficult Moments

Your response during challenging moments significantly impacts outcomes:

Crisis Response Steps

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Stay Calm

Remain composed and avoid escalation

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Safety First

Prioritize everyone's safety

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Follow Through

Maintain consistent consequences

When to Seek Professional Help

Consider professional behavior support if any of these situations apply:

Safety Concerns

  • • Behaviors pose safety risks to the child or others
  • • Challenging behaviors interfere with learning or family life

Escalating Patterns

  • • You feel overwhelmed or unsure how to respond
  • • Behaviors are increasing in frequency or intensity

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